Two words, one choice, three seconds. The phone deals the pairs, counts how the room splits, and never repeats one, so you can play anywhere with zero setup.
This or That is the quickest choosing game there is. Someone reads two options, like pizza or burgers, and everyone picks one right away. This page has 336 clean pairs sorted by topic and audience, and a free game above that runs on one phone, counts how your group votes and never repeats a pair.
How to play
You need one phone and two or more people. There is nothing to download and no sign-up.
- Find the game panel at the top of this page. Every pack has a level. Level 1 is for everyone, from young kids to grandparents. Level 2 adds the Work and Hard ones packs for teens and adults.
- Turn on the packs you like and press Start. The level 1 packs are already on, so you can start right away.
- The phone shows two choices. Read them out loud: "This or that: beach or mountains?"
- Everyone answers at the same moment. Point left or right, call it out, or hold up one or two fingers.
- Tap the side that most people picked, then Next. The game keeps a running tally, and at the end you see how the room split.
The deck does not repeat until every pair has come up. If the page reloads by accident, your game is still there. Tap "Full screen" so the words are big enough to read from across the room.
Rules and variations
The only rule is speed. Answer within three seconds, and no "it depends". Once your group knows the game, try one of these.
- Lightning round. Read ten pairs as fast as you can without stopping. Players shout their answers. It gets loud and silly in the best way.
- Match my friend. Pick one player. Before each vote, everyone else guesses what that player will choose. A correct guess scores a point.
- Stand up, sit down. Standing means the first option and sitting means the second. This works great for classrooms and big groups.
- Odd one out. Anyone who ends up alone on their side has to give one reason for their choice. Everyone else just gets to laugh.
- Explain it. Slow the game down. For each pair, one person explains their choice in a single sentence. This turns the game into a conversation starter.
Tips for a good game
Keep it moving. This game is about rhythm. Do not stop to debate every pair. Save the long talks for the ones that split the room down the middle.
Use it as a warm-up. This or That works well as the first game of the night. Nobody has to say much, so shy guests can join in from the first pair. After ten minutes, people know each other a little better, and a talking game like Would You Rather is easier.
Mixed ages. With small kids, start with the Kids and Food packs. Let a child hold the phone and read the words. Many pairs are single words, so early readers can manage it, and it is good reading practice.
Shy players. Pointing is a full answer. Nobody needs to explain. The tally shows the group's choice, not each person's vote, so nobody feels singled out.
Teams and classes. For a video call, ask people to answer in the chat or hold up one or two fingers. For a class, read a pair and have students walk to the left or right side of the room.
Mix the packs. Jumping from Food to Hard ones keeps people on their toes. Going from "pancakes or waffles" to "money or time" always gets a laugh.
How to play without a phone
All 336 pairs are listed below, sorted by pack. One person reads them out and everyone answers. That is the whole game.
For a party, print the list and cut it into strips. Put them in a bowl and take turns drawing one. For a classroom, write a pair on the board each morning and let students vote with sticky notes on either side.
On a car ride, the passenger reads and everyone else calls out their answer. Keep a quick count on paper if you want to see which family member agrees with you the most.
You can also make up your own pairs. Look around the room or out the window and pick two things you can see: trees or clouds, red cars or blue cars. Kids are very good at this, and it keeps a long drive or a rainy afternoon going.
All 336 questions
Food
- Pizza or Burgers
- Tacos or Burritos
- Pancakes or Waffles
- Fries or Onion rings
- Chocolate or Vanilla
- Cake or Pie
- Cookies or Brownies
- Ketchup or Mustard
- Sweet or Salty
- Spicy or Mild
- Pasta or Rice
- Cheese pizza or Pepperoni pizza
- Apples or Oranges
- Strawberries or Blueberries
- Hot dogs or Hamburgers
- Cereal or Toast
- Ice cream cone or Ice cream cup
- Popcorn or Chips
- Mac and cheese or Grilled cheese
- Breakfast or Dinner
- Soup or Salad
- Crunchy peanut butter or Smooth peanut butter
- Hot chocolate or Lemonade
- Milkshake or Smoothie
- Scrambled eggs or Fried eggs
- Bacon or Sausage
- Sushi or Ramen
- Cupcakes or Doughnuts
- Watermelon or Pineapple
- Chicken nuggets or Fish sticks
- Mashed potatoes or Baked potatoes
- Bagels or Croissants
- Candy or Chips and dip
- Ranch or Barbecue sauce
- Homemade food or Takeout
- Thin crust or Deep dish
- Gummy bears or Chocolate bars
- Corn on the cob or Green beans
- Cheesecake or Ice cream cake
- Pickles or Olives
- Honey or Maple syrup
- Lasagna or Spaghetti
- Avocado or Tomato
- Muffins or Scones
Everyday
- Window open or Window closed
- Early bird or Night owl
- Cats or Dogs
- Beach or Mountains
- Summer or Winter
- Sunrise or Sunset
- Rain or Snow
- Text or Call
- Shower or Bath
- Socks on in bed or Socks off in bed
- Window seat or Aisle seat
- Backpack or Tote bag
- Neighbors you know or Neighbors you never see
- Big party or Small get-together
- Stay in or Go out
- Hoodie or Jacket
- Sneakers or Sandals
- Pen or Pencil
- Shorts or Jeans
- Messy room or Tidy room
- Alarm clock or Wake up on your own
- Bike or Scooter
- Notes app or Paper lists
- Umbrella or Raincoat
- Lake or Ocean
- Fan on at night or Fan off at night
- Bright colors or Dark colors
- Long hair or Short hair
- Jump in head first or Jump in feet first
- Paper books or E-books
- Handwriting or Typing
- Voice notes or Typed messages
- Sit on the floor or Sit on the couch
- Sunglasses or Hat
- Loud music or Quiet music
- Sleep with the lights on or Sleep with the lights off
- Stairs or Elevator
- Walk or Run
- Ice cubes or No ice
- Clean as you go or Clean at the end
- Gift cards or Wrapped gifts
- Front row or Back row
- Shop in store or Shop online
Entertainment
- Movies or TV shows
- Comedy or Action
- Cartoons or Live action
- Superheroes or Wizards
- Books or Audiobooks
- Music or Podcasts
- Singing or Dancing
- Video games or Board games
- Movie theater or Movie at home
- Concert or Sports game
- Drawing or Painting
- Piano or Guitar
- Drums or Violin
- Scary movie or Silly movie
- Old movies or New movies
- Watch the movie first or Read the book first
- Sequel or Original
- Karaoke or Dance party
- Magic show or Circus
- Puzzles or Crosswords
- Theme park or Water park
- Roller coaster or Ferris wheel
- Bowling or Mini golf
- Escape room or Laser tag
- Cartoons in the morning or Movies at night
- Funny videos or Cooking videos
- Mystery books or Adventure books
- Comics or Novels
- Watch sports or Play sports
- Space movies or Ocean movies
- Stand-up comedy or Improv
- Singing in the shower or Singing in the car
- Binge a whole season or One episode a week
- Musicals or Animated films
- Arcade or Bowling alley
- Chess or Checkers
- Trivia night or Game night
- Make a movie or Star in a movie
- Be in a band or Be a solo singer
- Jigsaw puzzle or Model kit
- Skateboarding or Rollerblading
- Zoo or Aquarium
Travel & places
- Plane or Train
- Road trip or Flight
- Hotel or Camping
- Paris or London
- Tokyo or New York
- Beach vacation or City vacation
- Desert or Rainforest
- Mountains or Islands
- Cruise or Cabin
- Pack light or Pack everything
- Mountain cabin or Beach hut
- Museum or Street market
- Ski trip or Surf trip
- Tent or Treehouse
- Big city or Small town
- Hiking or Biking
- Snorkeling or Scuba diving
- Hot air balloon or Helicopter
- Sightseeing or Relaxing
- Local food or Familiar food
- Plan every day or No plan at all
- Postcards or Photos
- Lighthouse or Castle
- Waterfall or Volcano
- Safari or Aquarium trip
- Boat or Bus
- Sunrise hike or Sunset swim
- Travel alone or Travel with friends
- Countryside farm stay or Downtown apartment
- Sandcastles or Seashells
- Street food or Fancy restaurant
- Weekend trip or Two-week trip
- Map or GPS
- Trip abroad or Trip at home
- Sleep on the plane or Watch movies on the plane
- Souvenir magnet or Souvenir T-shirt
- Kayak or Canoe
- Old town streets or Modern skyscrapers
- Northern Lights or Shooting stars
- Train sleeper car or Overnight ferry
- Pool or Sea
- Carry-on or Checked bag
Seasons & holidays
- Spring or Fall
- Snow day or Beach day
- Christmas or Halloween
- Thanksgiving or New Year's Eve
- Real tree or Fake tree
- Candy canes or Gingerbread
- Pumpkin pie or Apple pie
- Turkey or Ham
- Costume party or Pajama party
- Trick-or-treating or Handing out candy
- Fireworks or Bonfire
- Snowman or Snow angel
- Sledding or Ice skating
- Peppermint or Cinnamon
- Leaf piles or Puddle jumping
- Carving pumpkins or Decorating cookies
- Ugly sweater or Holiday pajamas
- Wrapping paper or Gift bags
- Open gifts Christmas Eve or Open gifts Christmas morning
- Thanksgiving stuffing or Thanksgiving mashed potatoes
- Paper snowflakes or Paper lanterns
- Summer camp or Family vacation
- Surprise party or Planned party
- Big birthday party or Birthday trip
- Snowball fight or Water balloon fight
- Scary costume or Funny costume
- Holiday lights or Holiday music
- Pool in summer or Fireplace in winter
- Watermelon in summer or Soup in winter
- Christmas cookies or Christmas candy
- Advent calendar or Stocking
- Santa or Rudolph
- Thanksgiving parade or Thanksgiving football
- Corn maze or Hayride
- Leftover turkey or Leftover pie
- Rainy day or Windy day
- Mittens or Gloves
- Flip-flops or Rain boots
- Fourth of July or New Year's Day
- Ice cream truck or Lemonade stand
- Picnic or Barbecue
Kids
- Unicorns or Dragons
- Pirates or Ninjas
- Dinosaurs or Sharks
- Volcanoes or Tornadoes
- Princess or Knight
- Slide or Swings
- Sandbox or Monkey bars
- Crayons or Markers
- Hide-and-seek or Tag
- Recess or Lunch
- Bubbles or Balloons
- Teddy bear or Toy truck
- Robots or Aliens
- Puppies or Kittens
- Lions or Tigers
- Penguins or Polar bears
- Owls or Parrots
- Butterflies or Ladybugs
- Elephants or Giraffes
- Monkeys or Pandas
- Trampoline or Bouncy castle
- Fort made of pillows or Fort made of boxes
- Play outside or Play inside
- Draw or Build
- Bedtime story or Bedtime song
- Lunchbox or School lunch
- Science or Art
- Math or Reading
- Gym or Music class
- Field trip or Pajama day
- Read a comic or Read a picture book
- Stickers or Stamps
- Playdough or Slime
- Rocket ship or Submarine
- Firefighter or Astronaut
- Fairy or Wizard
- Pet fish or Pet hamster
- Dress up or Face paint
- Water slide or Splash pad
- Building blocks or Coloring books
- Pirate ship or Castle
- Chalk drawings or Paper airplanes
Work
- Work from home or Work from the office
- Coffee or Tea
- Early start or Late finish
- Big company or Small startup
- Email or Phone call
- Meetings or Messages
- Desk by the window or Desk by the kitchen
- Standing desk or Sitting desk
- Four long days or Five short days
- Team project or Solo project
- Boss or Employee
- Raise or Extra vacation
- Notebook or Laptop notes
- Morning meetings or Afternoon meetings
- Lunch at your desk or Lunch out
- Headphones on or Office chatter
- Camera on or Camera off
- Spreadsheets or Slides
- To-do list or Calendar blocks
- Inbox zero or Thousands unread
- Commute by train or Commute by car
- Work party or Day off
- Present the idea or Write the plan
- Fixed hours or Flexible hours
- Office plant or Office pet
- Casual Friday or Dress up Friday
- Long lunch or Leave early
- Big team or Small team
- Start a business or Climb the ladder
- Office snacks or Free lunch
- Weekly check-in or Monthly check-in
- Training course or Learn on the job
- Open office or Private office
- Same job forever or New job every few years
- Detailed instructions or Total freedom
- Deadline next week or Deadline tomorrow but easy
- Group chat or One-on-one chat
- Work trip or Work from a beach
- Mentor or Mentee
- Early retirement or Dream job until 70
- Paper calendar or Phone calendar
Hard ones
- Money or Time
- Fame or Privacy
- Past or Future
- Smart or Lucky
- Funny or Kind
- Truth or Peace
- Fly or Teleport
- Invisible or Super strong
- Read minds or See the future
- No phone or No music
- Forgive or Forget
- Big house or Big garden
- Many friends or One best friend
- Sweet dreams or Deep sleep
- Win or Have fun
- Adventure or Comfort
- Talent or Hard work
- Head or Heart
- Rich and bored or Broke and happy
- Live by the sea forever or Live in the mountains forever
- Remember everything or Forget the bad stuff
- Never cold or Never tired
- Be early or Be exactly on time
- Save or Spend
- Ask for help or Figure it out alone
- Leader or Team player
- Speak every language or Play every instrument
- Live forever or Live a perfect lifetime
- Change the past or Know the future
- Be admired or Be understood
- Brave or Careful
- Quiet genius or Loud entertainer
- Silence or Noise
- Lose your keys or Lose your wallet
- Free food for life or Free travel for life
- Ten small wins or One huge win
- Always right or Always liked
- Hot summer only or Cold winter only
- Book smarts or Street smarts
- Be famous or Be the one who makes people famous
- New friends or Old friends
FAQ
What is This or That?
It is a fast choosing game. You hear two options, like cats or dogs, and pick one right away. It is shorter than Would You Rather, so a round takes seconds and even small kids can join in.
How many players do you need?
Two people can play, and it works well for groups of up to thirty, like a classroom or a team call. Everyone answers at the same time, so a big group does not slow it down.
What are good this or that questions for kids?
The level 1 packs are all kid friendly: Food, Everyday, Entertainment, Travel and places, Seasons and holidays, and Kids. The Kids pack has pairs like unicorns or dragons and slide or swings, which work from about five years old.
How do you win This or That?
There is no winner in the basic game. To add points, try the match game: before each vote, a player predicts what a friend will pick. Every correct prediction scores one point.
Is this good for a team meeting or a classroom?
Yes. It is one of the easiest icebreakers because nobody has to talk for long. Use the Work pack for teams and the Kids pack for younger classes. Everything on this page is clean.
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